tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36825579574791382272024-03-18T20:00:33.152-07:00Involuntary SimplicityI have a love/hate relationship with stuff.Lunaseahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06148921520523971670noreply@blogger.comBlogger19125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3682557957479138227.post-14933034149311436092009-09-01T09:56:00.001-07:002009-09-01T09:59:49.211-07:00Free Music TuesdayThere are some great deals at Amazon right now:<br /><br />Order <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Big-Kahuna-Reef-Game-Download-PC/dp/B001K7HV3Q/ref=tag_stp_st_edpp_url">this free game</a> (you don't have to actually download it), and right now get a $5 credit towards MP3 in your e-mail (it doesn't say how long that will last - I did it Friday and got my credit). You have to use the Amazon game downloading software.<br /><br />Many free world music samplers are now available <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/feature.html/ref=s9_al_bw_feat?ie=UTF8&docId=1000410281&pf_rd_m=ATVPDKIKX0DER&pf_rd_s=center-3&pf_rd_r=01VQZ6D0T3RG3ZCJQEYN&pf_rd_t=101&pf_rd_p=486497451&pf_rd_i=2210995011">here</a>. Again, you have to use the Amazon music downloader, but I like it because it transfers the tracks directly to my iTunes - no importing.Lunaseahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06148921520523971670noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3682557957479138227.post-16847040592478502792009-07-31T15:35:00.000-07:002009-07-31T16:03:47.768-07:00Goals and White Uniform Shirt ScoreI've been giving this blog a lot of thought lately. What do I want it to be? A frugal living blog? Life hacker? Product review blog?<br /><br />It started last year when I realized I was never going to have a savings or any emergency money if my spending equaled my earnings. (Quick study, I am). In my 20's I landed in credit card hell, got out of it in my 30's, and will do anything to avoid that again. So I started this blog to document my struggles with consumption, temptation and simplicity.<br /><br />Then BlogHer, who pays me enough for a pack of gum every six months for ads on my main blog, Everyday Lunasea, said I couldn't do product reviews on that blog as long as I was receiving their advertising. So I put my reviews here. I do product reviews when I get a product free to try, or if I just really like something I buy. I don't do product reviews of stuff I don't like, because according to my agreement with the companies I contract with, I don't publish anything if I don't like the product. But I will NEVER, never write a positive review for something I had a negative experience with. I'm a blogger, not a PR person and I'm definitely not a salesperson. In fact, I suck at sales.<br /><br />So I guess it's all three. This coming month should be challenging because I have to end the month with about $1,000 in my checking account in order to pay the first months's tuition for the boys and my office rent on September 1. I took two weeks off in July, which means I'll get paid less this month (I get paid for July sessions in August). Also, A. needs new uniforms and it's my Dad's birthday. Oh, and A. turns seven in early September and wants a Star Wars b-day party, so that's an extra expense during a tight month, too.<br /><br />Just so you know, here's how we have our expenses divided. G and I have completely separate accounts. Here's what he pays for:<br /><br />Mortgage<br />Homeowner and earthquake insurance<br />All home repairs<br />All yard stuff<br />Cell phone bill<br />Water and Garbage<br />Gas and Electricity<br />Most car repairs & maintenance<br /><br />Here's what I pay for:<br /><br />Groceries<br />School tuition for A. and B.<br />Car insurance<br />Phone bill<br />Cable TV<br />All kids' needs (clothing, field trips, supplies, pull-ups, etc)<br />Household goods<br /><br />We each pay for our own life insurance and our own business expenses. We've never sat down and compared what we pay each month and what percentage it is of our total income, but I know that my expenses are about 100% of my income and G's are about 70% of his. We should probably make that more equitable, but we haven't gotten around to it, and I seem to be comfortable in the role of the martyr.<br /><br />Heading into August, we' re going to have a tight month. A. wanted a Nintendo DS for his b-day but I told him he could either have that or a party for his classmates. He chose the party. Oh the one hand, yay for him choosing experiences over things, and on the other hand, buying him a Nintendo and scrapping the party would've been a whole lot easier for me.<br /><br />Now I'm searching for cardboard tubes to make 25 cheap light sabers. Yay.<br /><br />Today there was a 2-day coupon in the paper for $10 off any $20 purchase at Kohl's. So we headed down there immediately and picked up 3 uniform polos for A. We're supposed to buy them from Land's End but I seriously doubt anyone's going to look inside A's collar for the tag. So 3 Arrow polos, usually $16.00 ea, on sale for $10, cost me about $23.<br /><br />In our freezer we have enough fish for maybe 2 more meals, some sausages and some shrimp. I'll plan to buy frozen chicken and potstickers at Trader Joe's to fill it up. My goal is to spend less than $600 this month on food for all of us. I average about $700, and if I'm totally not paying attention and buying lots of convenience foods, it can get up to around $1000.Lunaseahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06148921520523971670noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3682557957479138227.post-11911417369055209152009-06-18T22:27:00.000-07:002009-06-18T22:47:01.755-07:00Quick, Touching Summer Read<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjm8seBoJ6DGJ3qsHPzAc2rrkgSdwvuKd9Ga6ldIDXPahRe5_8HilFBmJJl7VYlX1cCvJXMK9xve6c0-dkWoaoQcjpDjyPNCGbHpGJjrvc4wRffIAwAtcc4Lm_Ka8U_Kv4rowAE4S6mY0Q/s1600-h/lacemakers+book.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 155px; height: 233px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjm8seBoJ6DGJ3qsHPzAc2rrkgSdwvuKd9Ga6ldIDXPahRe5_8HilFBmJJl7VYlX1cCvJXMK9xve6c0-dkWoaoQcjpDjyPNCGbHpGJjrvc4wRffIAwAtcc4Lm_Ka8U_Kv4rowAE4S6mY0Q/s400/lacemakers+book.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5348909722832962562" border="0" /></a><br />Just in time for summer comes The Lace Makers of Glenmara (available next Tuesday). I'm a sucker for books set in Ireland (note the entire Maeve Binchy library over there in my GoodReads widget), and this one hits all the notes: lousy weather, rugged terrain, mysterious travellers, witty elders.<br /><br />Kate is fleeing a failed relationship, a failed career move and her mother's death. She takes the trip to Ireland that she'd been planning to take with her mother, and ends up stranded in the tiny hamlet of Glenmara. She happens into a circle of lace makers, each with their own sorrows and challenges. The characters are typically Irish in their reticence to both air dirty laundry and show emotion, but the new project of designing lacy lingerie in the hopes of stimulating the economy in the impovershed village forces the women to face themselves and their challenges head on. It also provides Kate with a distraction from her past, and a way to gain confidence in her future.<br /><br />Although at times the Irish stereotypes are a bit trite, Heather Barbieri shows glimpses of brilliance in her descriptions of the ruggedness of both land and people. The narrative from each woman's point of view shows us (and Kate) that every woman has her trials, almost everything can be survived, and the beauty that exists in every relationship lasts beyond death.<br /><br />It's a fairly quick read, perfect for summer trips or lounging on the porch swing. And you'll probably never look at lace the same way again.<br /><br /><br />(reviewed for <a href="http://mother-talk.com/mothertalk/">Mother-Talk</a>)Lunaseahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06148921520523971670noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3682557957479138227.post-85071689037827554032009-06-04T09:58:00.000-07:002009-06-04T10:15:23.173-07:00An Historic TimeBoth boys were pretty interested in the presidential campaign last year. Although they thought our president's name was "Rock of Bama" for a while, they eventually figured it out and I'm proud to say that Benjamin was the only 3-year-old in his preschool class who knew that the other candidate was John McCain.<br /><br />I've been looking for a book on Obama, especially for A. to read, but all the ones I've found are really thin and there's just not a lot of information. That's why this one is a keeper:<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiJ1w2ZbcbWGVLRIrhOYfMD9Xc9zRWeeS4DsELpGM-PC79fUEQuxftTHxrA_m4QS2DxwnEhhvW2-l_FNjYnjHzLp6Zdwmcbj1QQldAfqxsr-TF9l0k8ab4_fz-TfgXC9u3b4uIfxhJRrGo/s1600-h/NSOBAMAYR_LARGE.JPG"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 294px; height: 350px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiJ1w2ZbcbWGVLRIrhOYfMD9Xc9zRWeeS4DsELpGM-PC79fUEQuxftTHxrA_m4QS2DxwnEhhvW2-l_FNjYnjHzLp6Zdwmcbj1QQldAfqxsr-TF9l0k8ab4_fz-TfgXC9u3b4uIfxhJRrGo/s400/NSOBAMAYR_LARGE.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5343520264639905458" border="0" /></a><br /><br />I actually got it for A., but his father keeps taking it. Filled with photos and interesting tidbits (he collects Spiderman comics), it's a quality hardcover book with lots of interesting information about Obama and his family. It's easy enough for A. to read, but interesting enough for grownups, and it's a great keepsake of this historic election. The boys have to wrestle us to get their hands on it. It's available through <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Obama-Historic-Journey-Young-Readers/dp/0670012084/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1242422635&sr=8-1">Amazon</a> and the <a href="http://www.nytstore.com/ProdDetail.aspx?prodId=29141">New York Times store</a>.Lunaseahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06148921520523971670noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3682557957479138227.post-59319603199568672172009-04-16T21:24:00.000-07:002009-04-20T18:23:53.101-07:0010-10-10<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.amazon.com/10-10-10-Life-Transforming-Idea-Suzy-Welch/dp/1416591826"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 281px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjYh0swlPFEum2dzv439Hl6nqrBsgL8AtVNTXEaIIoIZ2wOEYGAwx2PldYeGiwCQHohW8haSwSdlNFe_-Yr5FCPUiXkevWeMfGZCov5j7st7sl872oZphccNtUPScQrRM98sEd-sBJgr38/s400/10-10-10.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5325520731926403842" border="0" /></a><br />I'd have to put "I need help making decisions" on my Top 5 Reasons People Come to Therapy list. Whether it's a newly separated woman who isn't used to making decisions on her own, or the man who keeps ending up in jobs he hates, knowing how to make decisions in the absence of a crystal ball is tricky.<br /><br />Suzy Welch has come up with a shorthand for evaluating decisions in her new book, <a href="http://www.amazon.com/10-10-10-Life-Transforming-Idea-Suzy-Welch/dp/1416591826">"10-10-10."</a> It's a simple method where you take your options and evaluate the impact of each in 10 minutes, 10 months, and 10 years. When I first read the idea, I thought, "She can fill a whole book with that?" Thinking of the long-term implications of your decisions seems, sort of, well, obvious.<br /><br />But there's more to it. The real message here is how to take stock of your values and make decisions based on what's important in your life. Welch acknowledges the many pressures people face trying to balance work, family, and personal needs. She gives examples of times when she put up with some difficult shorter-term situations (like one example of putting up with sexual harrassment from co-workers) in order to reach longer range goals at work. You might not agree with her decision to put up with it, but at least you understand why she did it. (10 minutes of it might have sucked, but in 10 years - look - she's got a column in O magazine. Can't argue with that).<br /><br />The best part of Welch's book is the many engaging stories she tells about people torn between aging parents, career concerns, partners and kids. It's interesting to follow each subject's reasoning, and realize that while I might make different choices, my choices are a direct reflection of <span style="font-style: italic;">my</span> values (most of the time), and that was reassuring to realize.<br /><br />Welch offers the idea that using 10-10-10 to make decisions will avoid regrets, which is probably unrealistic. Still, I will definitely recommend this book to clients wanting to live a more authentic life by aligning their decisions with their values.Lunaseahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06148921520523971670noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3682557957479138227.post-60429486537433916752009-03-05T12:12:00.000-08:002009-03-05T12:16:42.864-08:00Free Music ThursdayI'm only going to post freebies when I think they're worth something, so as long as your tastes are exactly like mine, you should enjoy these: <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/feature.html/ref=pe_26200_11501960_fe_txt_1/?docId=1000343231">Free Barenaked Ladies MP3</a>'s.<br /><br />If you haven't downloaded from Amazon yet, you need to install the Amazon downloader - it's kind of annoying to need yet another piece of software, but it's so easy and it installs the songs right into my iTunes that I don't mind it. Also - check out the new U2 album - <a href="http://www.amazon.com/No-Line-On-The-Horizon/dp/B001S6HZTE/ref=amb_link_83805831_2?pf_rd_m=ATVPDKIKX0DER&pf_rd_s=top-1&pf_rd_r=13ADFZ8B5EBAKZKC92EJ&pf_rd_t=301&pf_rd_p=471081811&pf_rd_i=u2">No Line on the Horizon</a> at Amazon for just $3.99.Lunaseahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06148921520523971670noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3682557957479138227.post-31232141973470111972009-02-07T14:41:00.000-08:002009-02-07T15:08:05.888-08:00Free Books......to borrow.<br /><br />I used to work near <a href="http://www.greenapplebooks.com/cgi-bin/mergatroid/index.html">Green Apple Books</a> in SF, a fabulous new/used bookstore. At the same time, I lived near <a href="http://www.blackoakbooks.com/">Black Oak Books</a> in Berkeley, another fabulous new/used bookstore. I love books. I've always dreamed of having a library - one of those book-lined rooms that are always in upper-class NY apartments. I spent so much money on books in my 20's and 30's I'm scared to even try to estimate it.<br /><br />Then I discovered this place where they'll let you borrow any books you need for free, you just have to bring it back when you're done. Who knew? I am now a HUGE fan of the library. I visit with the boys about once a week, and on my own at least a couple times a month. We belong to our friendly neighborhood library, where they know us by name, and also to the city-across-the-bay's library, which is better funded but more impersonal.<br /><br />I also signed up for library alerts via <a href="http://www.wowbrary.org/">Wowbrary.</a> I get an e-mail alerting me to recent acquisitions and I can go to the library's website immediately and put the items on hold. I just did that with an e-mail, today, in fact, and discovered that the books I was interested in, like the one below, were on-line and I could access them immediately! Cool! No driving, no checking out, no late fees!<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.amazon.com/Canon-Digital-Rebel-450D-Companion/dp/0596520867%3FSubscriptionId%3D18F0HAA4KWCRBW7SEZG2%26tag%3Dws%26linkCode%3Dxm2%26camp%3D2025%26creative%3D165953%26creativeASIN%3D0596520867"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 240px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjiQJIfAdurJUUIbD5rJlnq-S5OmoJpjkUTxbZ7B_vLBSwJggUuYdrpslmwtFfIO4fUTU8SSlaeXjTCY-jSMO8gKeTYOXrkyWz8E2nMufnTVwxHy0wc3CBREjXBKhyphenhyphenk9UeH3foHJIGy-t8/s400/canon+book.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5300194979655451426" border="0" /></a><br /><br />The other way I keep track of my book reading is through <a href="http://www.goodreads.com/user/show/818068">Goodreads.com</a>. It's a social networking site all about books. I can see my friend's reading lists, see what they thought of a certain book, and get recommendations. I have a friend who shares my fascination with the fundamentalist LDS crowd, so we alert each other when we find another book/memoir on that subject.<br /><br />My favorite part of Goodreads, though, is the "to-read" shelf. Here's where I keep track of books I read or hear about and want to read. If I have time, I take the Sunday book section, note which books interest me, then add them to Goodreads. I can also log onto my library website and see if any are available to be put on hold. My neighborhood library is pretty small, but I can request any book from anywhere in the county and they'll deliver it to my library for free. Right now I have the second book in the Twilight series waiting for me. Don't judge.<br /><br />I don't miss being able to keep the book for reference as much as I thought I would. There are a couple cookbooks that I keep taking out over and over, so someday I might invest in those to keep. But actually, it's kind of nice to turn the books back in and not have to find room for them on my shelf.<br /><br />And, the boys get exposure to way more books than I could ever buy for them for free. Sometimes we hang out there and the boys do jigsaw puzzles or find other kids to play with. I see lots of kids who probably don't have computers at home using them at the library. I've come to see the library as an important community resource, and if I was a philanthropist, the underfunded libraries would be top on my list of organizations to support.Lunaseahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06148921520523971670noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3682557957479138227.post-79393185624016382942009-01-30T13:32:00.000-08:002009-01-30T13:44:57.745-08:00Free Music FridayI don't know if there's enough good free music out there to do this every week, but on Fridays I'm going to try to highlight <span style="font-style: italic;">something</span> free, anyway.<br /><br />Our first download today is <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Amazon-Presents-Green-Digital-Sampler/dp/B001O3RF1O/ref=sr_f3_1?ie=UTF8&s=dmusic&qid=1233351146&sr=103-1">Amazon Presents Green Hill Music Digital Sampler</a>. The sampler has five songs. All fall under the genre "New Age/World" music, and if you hate that genre it won't be for you. I listened to them on my walk this morning and while they were a little too slow and relaxing for a walk, I found them very pleasant and melodic, and I'm sure I'll call them up again on my music rotation.<br /><br />The second free download is a surprise: Steve Martin's <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Daddy-Played-the-Banjo/dp/B001PTKQKE/ref=sr_f2_2?ie=UTF8&s=dmusic&qid=1233351450&sr=102-2">Daddy Played the Banjo</a>, from his album "The Crow: New Songs for the Five-String Banjo." I expected something along the lines of King Tut, but this is a straight-up bluegrass album, with songs all written by Steve Martin. Apparently the album features vocals by Dolly Parton, Mary Black and others. I tried to figure out who does vocals on this song, but it sure doesn't sound like Steve. I wish they'd let you see the "back" of the album on downloads or see the credits somehow. Anyway, great bluegrassy banjo song and definitely worth downloading.<br /><br />Amazon has a slightly weird downloading process. You have to download the "Downloader" first, then once that's installed, it will open the downloads for you and automatically load them into iTunes (or whatever software you use, I think, but I use iTunes so I can't speak for other programs). It's very easy once you do it once or twice, and get used to it opening, queuing, <span style="font-style: italic;">then</span> downloading the songs.Lunaseahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06148921520523971670noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3682557957479138227.post-21311532047190305272009-01-26T11:11:00.000-08:002009-01-26T11:24:15.640-08:00Giveaway AlertSince the boys have become Pokemon-obsessed, I have had the opportunity to peruse many Japanese import sites (damn you, Pikachu, for hitting your peak of popularity 10 years ago and now only being available via internet)...and I have come to conclude that Japanese stuff is really, really cute. Very, very cute.<br /><br />There's a giveaway right now over on one of my favorite crafty sites, <a href="http://belladia.typepad.com/crafty_crow/2009/01/giveaway-monday-japanese-fabric.html?cid=146220082#comments">Crafty Crow</a>, where you can win $25 in cute Japanese fabrics. I can't sew, except for rudimentary hemming, but I would definitely be able to find something to do with $25 in cute Japanese fabrics.Lunaseahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06148921520523971670noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3682557957479138227.post-87538372597445127812008-12-20T16:31:00.001-08:002008-12-20T16:31:39.610-08:00Because It's In The Christmas By-Laws<div style='background-color:#e9e9e9; width: 425px;'><object id='A36567' quality='high' data='http://aka.zero.jibjab.com/client/zero/ClientZero_EmbedViewer.swf?external_make_id=S6NCQQN29K5OkhfO&service=sendables.jibjab.com&partnerID=ElfYourself' pluginspage='http://www.macromedia.com/go/getflashplayer' type='application/x-shockwave-flash' wmode='transparent' height='319' width='425'><param name='wmode' value='transparent'></param><param name='movie' value='http://aka.zero.jibjab.com/client/zero/ClientZero_EmbedViewer.swf?external_make_id=S6NCQQN29K5OkhfO&service=sendables.jibjab.com&partnerID=ElfYourself'></param><param name='scaleMode' value='showAll'></param><param name='quality' value='high'></param><param name='allowNetworking' value='all'></param><param name='allowFullScreen' value='true' /><param name='FlashVars' value='external_make_id=S6NCQQN29K5OkhfO&service=sendables.jibjab.com&partnerID=ElfYourself'></param><param name='allowScriptAccess' value='always'></param></object><div style='text-align:center; width:435px; margin-top:6px;'>Send your own <a href='http://www.elfyourself.com'>ElfYourself</a> <a href='http://sendables.jibjab.com/ecards'>eCards</a></div></div><img style="visibility:hidden;width:0px;height:0px;" border=0 width=0 height=0 src="http://counters.gigya.com/wildfire/IMP/CXNID=2000002.0NXC/bHQ9MTIyOTgxOTA*MzAwMCZwdD*xMjI5ODE5NTEwNjI1JnA9NDE4ODEzJmQ9MjAyNjc5Jm49YmxvZ2dlciZnPTImdD*mbz*wOTllNmJjZjg3YWE*ZTBhODdkZmI4YTQxZjdjOTdiYQ==.gif" />Lunaseahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06148921520523971670noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3682557957479138227.post-86003772432254970622008-12-18T22:07:00.000-08:002008-12-18T22:18:00.979-08:00Shutterfly<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEitoMFXOZMqzLsSUyFf7Jqi7o3c4-ZE66mk7Fs_Lyx4I68aHokpWs5d8w7uthAgzkSyXo29zpxnE83_UPkntr5DewYn6zhBaNoGK0Sb1xRH3vNSdWvCyyu-MI_1KmGnAoMtUDI5I2gfnoc/s1600-h/Arnold+Oct+08-2.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 247px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEitoMFXOZMqzLsSUyFf7Jqi7o3c4-ZE66mk7Fs_Lyx4I68aHokpWs5d8w7uthAgzkSyXo29zpxnE83_UPkntr5DewYn6zhBaNoGK0Sb1xRH3vNSdWvCyyu-MI_1KmGnAoMtUDI5I2gfnoc/s320/Arnold+Oct+08-2.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5281380983721831602" border="0" /><br /></a><span style="font-size:85%;"><br />Template by <a href="http://www.designbydani.com/store/index.php?main_page=product_info&products_id=382">Dani Mogstad</a></span><br /><br />Gotta give a shout-out here to <a href="http://www.shutterfly.com/">Shutterfly</a>. Every year I make calendars for the grandpas, and this year I finally uploaded all the layouts on Tuesday night.<br /><br />TODAY I got an e-mail saying they'd already produced and shipped both of them! Not bad, eh?<br /><br />The other reason I used Shutterfly for the calendars is that it's easy to load all the birthdays and anniversaries in the family and save them from year to year. This year I just added the two new babies, and was done! Honestly, that's a huge reason I don't try another service. Shutterfly lost my dad's calendar two years ago and so I've been tempted, but I don't want to enter all those dates again.<br /><br />Their interface has improved over the last few years, and hey, I'm really impressed that they got shipped in two days without asking for a rush order or paying anything more than standard shipping.Lunaseahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06148921520523971670noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3682557957479138227.post-32338263040235463532008-12-07T20:56:00.000-08:002008-12-07T21:11:20.663-08:00I Would Be Shopping Anyway.....I just signed up for a FREE rewards program that rewards online shopping - if you have more holiday shopping to do and you do any of it at retailers like Macy's, REI, Target, Omaha Steaks (and many, many more), sign up for the <a href="http://www.priorityrewards.com">Priority Rewards Program</a> and earn 3 points for every dollar spent.<br /><br />While the site is heavy on the travel side - lots of points earned for hotel stays and you can also earn miles instead of points, there is an on-line shopping section. You still buy directly from the retailer, you just get to their site through Priority Rewards' site, and the points from any purchases will be added to your account (the site says it can take up to 8 weeks). You can also sign up for their Visa card and earn points that way. I bought my nephews' Christmas gifts from Target.com, paid what I would have any way, but also earned points towards a reward for me.<br /><br />Browsing through the rewards, I found houseware, electronics, charitable donations (nice idea), and of course, lots of travel rewards. The rewards list is really impressive - name brands, nice stuff, very large selection. And if they don't have what you're looking for, try the online shopper who can authorize the use of points for something not on the list. Personally, I've got my eye on this Le Creuset square baker for 25,000:<br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj6ONkQL02kQFEBxVsXcAsPemC2fGG59xQFIgGin9Od2whm3pFgr4Gbp1gVW8BsPCh5ahtS4rSbjFXruzb4ZSck_nmfxTCo6de2vPZDIwBjvSzVa5A_Ug-MNjPxRV9zuyXZOCFM_Amb7-M/s1600-h/le_creuset_3qt__covered_square_baker.ItemInfoPar.Single.ItemImage.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 200px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj6ONkQL02kQFEBxVsXcAsPemC2fGG59xQFIgGin9Od2whm3pFgr4Gbp1gVW8BsPCh5ahtS4rSbjFXruzb4ZSck_nmfxTCo6de2vPZDIwBjvSzVa5A_Ug-MNjPxRV9zuyXZOCFM_Amb7-M/s320/le_creuset_3qt__covered_square_baker.ItemInfoPar.Single.ItemImage.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5277280561495736034" border="0" /></a>Lunaseahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06148921520523971670noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3682557957479138227.post-66614533343555019312008-12-02T21:55:00.000-08:002008-12-02T22:12:12.771-08:00Making Peace with White Shirts and Free Giveaway"Free Giveaway" is kind of redundant, huh?<br /><br />Anyway, whoever thought it was a good idea to put little boys into white uniform shirts probably saw the little boys so cute and fresh about 2 minutes after they dressed, because that's as long as those shirts stay clean. Now that our school requires us to buy our uniforms from Land's End, it can get pretty expensive when my 6-year-old ruins his shirts. Add pizza and spaghetti to hot lunch day, and I cannot believe how dirty those things get.<br /><br />But until the school sees the error of its ways and allows the kids to wear the dark blue polo shirts, I will be fighting the good fight. Usually I set them aside and once a week I bleach the hell out of them. It's a little inconvenient and wasteful because I have to have a special load for only 5 shirts and whatever white socks I can find.<br /><br />So when I was given the chance to try out <a href="http://www.daretobecolorful.com/">Clorox 2 laundry booster</a>, I was skeptical. Nothing but very super concentrated bleach worked on these shirts. Guess what? It worked. Looked like I'd bleached them.<br /><br />They also have a <a href="http://www.daretobecolorful.com/">new site</a> where you can upload your messiest pictures and see others' laundry nightmares.<br /><br />Want to try? Leave a comment. I've got a couple of coupons for a FREE bottle. Yep, FREE.Lunaseahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06148921520523971670noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3682557957479138227.post-89779800067713001002008-10-24T16:00:00.001-07:002008-10-24T16:01:35.464-07:00Free Chocolate!Get a sample package of 8 truffles:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.haydeechocolatier.com/sample.php">Haydee Chocolatiers</a>Lunaseahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06148921520523971670noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3682557957479138227.post-12507494855943688522008-09-27T09:51:00.000-07:002008-09-27T10:13:55.727-07:00Crayola Sidewalk PaintsFor A's birthday, he received a Crayola sidewalk paint sprayer. It kind of looks like he's training to be an exterminator.<br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi9jvjnmFgIkOFa07e2lwsA_icOXy73WYtXC12xPa-X2Nzlw3E-MPCl77ZU2PGiQhvbNIBaEkXIT5ydiFTBeGsfr0KtbVi8XIZMmKoGb7sM3nxp0cB1UNefHpnR9db2WEqwTzu8EZPaTII/s1600-h/IMG_2939.JPG"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi9jvjnmFgIkOFa07e2lwsA_icOXy73WYtXC12xPa-X2Nzlw3E-MPCl77ZU2PGiQhvbNIBaEkXIT5ydiFTBeGsfr0KtbVi8XIZMmKoGb7sM3nxp0cB1UNefHpnR9db2WEqwTzu8EZPaTII/s320/IMG_2939.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5250746579412944594" border="0" /></a><br /><br />Anyway, I'm on this putting-things-away kick (yeah, I know, weird)...and I remember finding a good place for it and now I can't find it. Let this be a lesson to you - don't put things away.<br /><br />Last night I wanted the kids the chill out and watch a movie during the presidential debate, so I got them outside in the afternoon with brushes and the sidewalk paints. We'd gotten a few more bottles on sale at Target, so I poured the paints into paper bowls, gave them brushes and let them have at it. We had yellow, blue and bright pink paints.<br /><br />They loved it. The kids didn't mind that there were only three colors; there was lots of mixologist activity going on...<br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiT53UjnCcLe8bbgNGCW23mTwSucYw91RZ6Ab8nN99MkUHGdV9qf3E6LXjCNZEyJnPxMBaK3AwWC7Wf3v5wAQR3yOwlIvZyxkUMtEMF3bhql_TUen3eggGgpiKuA2_37t0CtbVjXAjHtA0/s1600-h/IMG_2990.JPG"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiT53UjnCcLe8bbgNGCW23mTwSucYw91RZ6Ab8nN99MkUHGdV9qf3E6LXjCNZEyJnPxMBaK3AwWC7Wf3v5wAQR3yOwlIvZyxkUMtEMF3bhql_TUen3eggGgpiKuA2_37t0CtbVjXAjHtA0/s320/IMG_2990.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5250747882963763586" border="0" /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgmNZSJZ1pDtzfxoXKBQRXhHZZdmN9jR_F-ASJy_ZB86wRD-kE0LMUvQ6UNFGZvCJdqMXZwwYzjb-fiJ5pSUKjjy_5v1SN9UcDQZl8HyJSvhzYlLsbyzYkY83geDTfdq9aVgXl12r5gylE/s1600-h/IMG_2988.JPG"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgmNZSJZ1pDtzfxoXKBQRXhHZZdmN9jR_F-ASJy_ZB86wRD-kE0LMUvQ6UNFGZvCJdqMXZwwYzjb-fiJ5pSUKjjy_5v1SN9UcDQZl8HyJSvhzYlLsbyzYkY83geDTfdq9aVgXl12r5gylE/s320/IMG_2988.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5250747880303290322" border="0" /></a><br />I painted the boys' names on the sidewalk.<br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgksfRS7EoIfbQlOHmVEioC5vncQGVEUPMq_41KEfd1B0YdXgKCZS2S9qHkzll7cBNOeY49YKosvJwBKGh6QMOTzuSimJRUTRuNPatuD2bp445z7l4TVLOBTprvfdu9dbEmlB7Dvj7TkbY/s1600-h/IMG_2986.JPG"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgksfRS7EoIfbQlOHmVEioC5vncQGVEUPMq_41KEfd1B0YdXgKCZS2S9qHkzll7cBNOeY49YKosvJwBKGh6QMOTzuSimJRUTRuNPatuD2bp445z7l4TVLOBTprvfdu9dbEmlB7Dvj7TkbY/s320/IMG_2986.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5250749053373532674" border="0" /></a><br />I was really impressed with how bright the colors stayed even after drying. It can be pretty messy, so you might want to put the kids in clothes they can strip off at the door. It's like wet chalk, and wipes off hands, faces, legs, and hair easily with wipes.<br /><br />It's supposed to wash off the pavement with water. We haven't tried it yet, so we'll see.Lunaseahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06148921520523971670noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3682557957479138227.post-34117126080694336232008-08-13T11:52:00.001-07:002008-08-13T11:55:31.505-07:00I forgot to include the price of two little boys' haircuts last Friday. I could possibly cut their hair myself, but it would take a LOT longer and they'd probably end up wearing a hat until we could get the mistakes corrected. So I take them to a small kids' salon about 10 miles south where the lady swings them up on a toy motorcycle, goes snip snip and about 5 minutes later their hair is perfect.<br /><br />It costs $15 per boy, and I give her a $5 tip, so that's $35 out.<br /><br />This weekend was low-charge because we didn't do much. I brought my food to the office.<br /><br />But I have done a lot of grocery shopping in the last two days. It felt like a lot since I haven't spent that much in the last two weeks, but when I compare it what I usually spend weekly on groceries, it wasn't bad. And, we're going to use it all. There should also be a lot more room in our freezer at the end of the month since we're using everything up.Lunaseahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06148921520523971670noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3682557957479138227.post-33213343154640339532008-08-10T20:33:00.000-07:002008-08-10T20:42:54.843-07:00Sunday: $4 - ice cream man.<br /><br />I know, I know. But buying from the ice cream man means no ice cream in the house, which is safer for me.<br /><br />Trader Joe's: juice, chips & potato sticks (should not have gone hungry), makeup remover cloths (impulse buy - I've been out for a while, but I was telling myself I should use the cleanser I already have before I buy more cloths): $24.07<br /><br />Total today: $28.07Lunaseahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06148921520523971670noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3682557957479138227.post-55319701567744406182008-08-09T13:07:00.001-07:002008-08-09T13:30:30.559-07:00Wednesday: see below; also, $135 cash in<br /><br />Thursday: We went to the dentist, got our teeth cleaned, and had no co-pay. No $$ out.<br /><br />Friday: Grocery Shopping. As planned, I went to Grocery Outlet first. That can be a dangerous place, especially the health and beauty aisle. So I kept repeating to myself, "I don't need shampoo or moisturizer right now," over and over. I found tartar sauce, bacon (score!), sugar and organic cereal. I also got a good deal on V-8, which G likes, and some other stuff.<br /><br />Grocery Outlet: $51.39<br /><br />Then we were off to Food Source, where we got everything else except honey mustard. How do they not have honey mustard? I love me some honey mustard on turkey, but I'm not making a special trip to Safeway just for that.<br /><br /><br />Food Source: $37.41<br /><br />Michael's: I went to look for memorabilia pockets, to hold our blessings in an album. They didn't have them, but they did have large sets of beads for 30 cents each; and a set of building cards for A's birthday that build a castle or many other kinds of buildings - right up his alley, $12.95.<br /><br />Michaels: $15.06<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Total out Friday: $103.86</span><br /><br />Saturday:<br /><br />Farmer's Market (corn, strawberries, blueberries, grapes, tomatoes, watermelon, zucchini): $26.00<br /><br />Lakeshore Learning: this was our splurge today. I love the large washable stamp pads and the spill-proof paint cups the teacher at our art class uses. They were having a 20% off sale, so I splurged on paint cups, 10 bottles tempera paint, brushes, a workbook for A., and a set of 5 large stamp pads for $62.17. Kind of a lot, and I'll have to look into a cheaper source for the paint. But when I consider how long it will keep the boys busy, I think it's worth it. And, I had enough cash in my wallet to cover both the Farmer's Market and the store, so that was nice.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Total out Saturday: $88.17</span>Lunaseahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06148921520523971670noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3682557957479138227.post-6259360402151508662008-08-06T16:50:00.000-07:002008-08-06T16:53:34.605-07:00Week 1My guidelines for this month:<br /><br />1. Account for every penny. I am starting off with $165 in cash (thanks to a client paying a month's worth of co-pays in cash - I don't usually carry that much) and $202.11 in my checking account.<br /><br />2. Get what I can get at Costco (assuming it's cheaper than store sales, which it sometimes isn't) - get what I can't get at Costco at Food Source or Grocery Outlet - get what I can't get at any of those places at Safeway or at the Farmer's Market if possible. Our grocery bill tends to be high because we buy organic produce and much of our dry goods are also organic.<br /><br />3. Plan meals each week, and plan shopping lists from meals. Take a list to Costco and ONLY buy what’s on the list (I did this on my last two trips to Costco, and my total purchases ended up being less than $100 which is pretty low for me<br /><br />4. Avoid Target. If I do go to Target, see above.<br /><br />5. Use what we have. Take an inventory of our freezer and pantry and use it up rather than buying more.<br /><br />6. Pack my food for work days.<br /><br />7. No non-essential purchases. What’s non-essential? I’ll have to figure that out as I go along. In the strictest terms, anything beyond minimal shelter, food and clothing are non-essential. I say that TP and medicine is essential. I also say that coffee is essential, but it doesn’t have to be Peet’s and it doesn’t have to be made somewhere other than home.<br /><br />A’s birthday is in the beginning of September. Stuff for goody bags and b-day presents are pretty non-essential in the grand scheme of things. But I imagine I’m going to buy them anyway.<br /><br />As an aside, I suggested to A. that we ask people not to bring b-day presents to his party and instead he could pick a charity for them to donate to, since he already has so much stuff and really doesn’t need more. His eyes filled with tears and his “Noooooo!” echoed through the aisles. Probably shouldn’t have brought it up to him in the toy section of Target.<br /><br />Monday: <br />Costco<br />Food Source<br /><br />Tuesday:<br />no spending<br /><br />Wednesday:<br />breakfast: $4.43 + .35 tip<br />frozen yogurt: $6.35 (it was a big one)<br />(didn't plan well for this day, but avoided buying lunch like I usually do, except the fro you cost as much as I usually pay for lunch).Lunaseahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06148921520523971670noreply@blogger.com0